3. Carnivals Are Full Of Eddies
Desperation should only be a surprise to the optimistic
“There are several good bars downtown.”
I was having an unlikely conversation with a twenty-something philosophy student and a pleasant older lady wearing a green scarf. The collegiate was telling me about the local hot spots by my hotel. His facial gestures and conductor like hand movements meant he was a connoisseur of fine beer. Sure, I was particular to stouts and other dark beers, but in my adult years alcohol carried more guilt with it than I cared to think about. I usually struggled with enjoyment and peer pressure. When I was younger, I melted into the evening. Now, I was always more aware than I was comfortable with. Though I still drank socially, those peppermint days were through.
They took up the two seats directly across the aisle. Our chat wasn’t wholly uncomfortable, but outgoing conversations were unusual to me. I was not a fan of water cooler exchanges. These things always make me think the other party is intently watching my every muscle spasm, every minuscule out-of-place skin flake.
It is only when we are observed that we truly become inconsequential
We talked for some time while the plane taxed around patiently. The conversation became more relaxed and I became slightly more content. At one point I lent my phone to the lady in the green scarf, so she could message her husband. She reminded me of a warm country villa. I could almost smell the apple pie. There was a blessing in every word she spoke and a smile that seemed to cover her whole body. The philosopher was slightly pompous, which resonated something in me, but the countrywoman was gentle. I found myself wanting to invite them both out for a game of croquet.
We wound through and pulled into several jutting lines and assorted boxes. The one-armed extension of the airport guided us into a transitional partnership as we exited the plane. Though slightly plagiaristic in nature, I could see myself thinking about them for days to come. They reminded me of two characters in a Lewis Carol book and I wanted to fit them into my pocket for future hiking adventures and tree climbs.
Arriving in Utah was congruent to moving backwards through Arizona. There was more patience here. The wind bit through crevices in the tunnel molding that instantly split camouflage cells on my face. Outside flowed a billowing icy tundra of pruned trees. What was once a haze, evolved to subtle lucidity. The light, people, and languid air stood aside for passers by. I zipped up my coat and put on my best expression for the onlooking departures ahead. Some of them were struggling with boredom for hours and needed a new outlet to focus on and who was I to disappoint.
When I stepped into the airport proper, I was caught off guard by the ambiance. It was as if the world hushed down while the walls leaned in to listen. Each step sent an echo through the building, reverberating with a frequency that blended in with the silence. This only lasted a few minutes and when it was over I wasn't sure if it really existed at all. I stopped by an advertisement for a local country event and pulled out my cell phone to let my wife know I had arrived safely. While I waited for a response, the older lady in the green scarf waved goodbye to me. It was as if her hand motion contorted around my head and vacuumed away every trace of normality. There was a blend of Summer and drink trays. My life had been so spastic since this morning. I felt like I could get a handle on this as long as I could hear my wife's voice. Without waiting for a response I called her number.
"Hi, I made it in Salt Lake ok."
"That's good. How was the flight? How are you feeling?"
"Not bad, I just wanted to hear your voice."
"I miss you too."
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I walked toward baggage claim and the car rental area. It might have been due to the weather, but everyone seemed to be carrying extra weight. I had always made it a habit to travel as light as possible. All I had with me was a simple backpack, just enough clothes to get by, two books and a tablet. In fact, this was intimately related to my aversion to Halloween. Costumes and jewelry were just excuses to make me feel awkward and heavy. I had sympathy for businessmen in suits and I shared the same sentiment for overworked housewives. They were so far away from the freedom of being naked. Not that I was comfortable enough to yearn for that, but I didn't want to be a bother to myself or anyone else. The airport security checks were trials to prove my limitations.
Right before I hit baggage claim I encountered a makeshift carnival midway where everyone was trying to pitch me something. A window salesman motioned towards head pillows and noise canceling headphones while a kitsch looking cereal store owner made himself as appetizing as possible. Even the high speed walkways, more appealing than the ground beneath, seemed rigged and rarely pay out. This is what the world sounds like when I try to cater to its needs. It took effort to acknowledge that a clown faced shotgun would yield profitable results in a place so dirty and discarded.
When I arrived at the carrousel I stopped, with no one around me, and stared at its silver ribbing for a moment. I didn't have any baggage to wait for, but it was incredibly relaxing. Once, when I was a child, I gave my mom a good scare by abandoning her in a place just like this. When she found me, I was in mid-climb toward the top of the baggage carrousel. Maybe I just needed to be alone, in this room, with this object. I stood here for some time and began to wonder where everyone else was. Surely a few people on my flight had belongings to pick up. Then, slowly, they began to trickle in like pigeons. The red alert light spun around and bags started to pour from its metal belly. I took my leave and shuffled toward the bathroom entrance.
The restroom use to be a sort of haven for me, much like everyone else. In my college days, when the throes of academia filled my pores, I would rush to a bathroom stall. It was akin to an eighties dirty pleasure movie with everything but the cafeteria lunch. I usually took solitude in the mathematics building. The floors were slick and the walls were speckled with flecks of gold and green. A row of slanted glass windows lined the north side, just below the ceiling. The typical sexual graffiti painted the stalls. I would find refuge in this isolated island, away from the high powered professors and the numbness of not knowing anyone.
This bathroom was typical of an oversized airport. It was as if the nations top scientists gathered once a year to develop the advanced technology that furnished these places. Between the spaceship like hand dryers and the absence of buttons, switches, or handles, I was guaranteed to get confused. I made my way into a stall, slung my bag around the door hanger and sat down. Everything about this place read chic modern, but the walls around me brought back artwork flashbacks from college. What is it about this place that wretches within our bodies and brings out our most obscene and offensive ideas? This is where our children learn about sex and prejudice, not from their parents. I read each entry in the airport journal, imagining which line came first and judging which was the most clever. In my middle age I looked for distractions, as this was no longer a place of peace for me. It had become a reminder for swollen prostates and irritated hemorrhoids. How frighteningly real life became with these slight annoyances. The lock on the door slowly melted into its hatch, soldering two conflicting thoughts into a mixture of black holes and dense coal. I felt like I was unable to move. Images of a juvenile and shoulder aching period flooded my periphery. A place where I was continually discovering monumental prizes within the human race. When you find yourself at the top and anxiously peer down, you are usually still in the dregs. In my thirties, I'm aware enough to know how ridiculous all of my thoughts are while still yearning for youth. I wish I wasn't so entrapped in these feelings so often. Maybe there was a less manic shell of a body that I could buy for a fantastic piece of self-sacrifice. It would be a minor price to pay for complete nihilism. The latch regained focus and I left the restroom.
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"Would you like rental car insurance?"
"No."
"Hmm...let me see here, we have an upgrade available. A 2006 Silverado for only thirty dollars more. Are you interested?"
"No thank you."
I worked in sales for several years and knew how rehearsed that must have been. The lady behind the counter, with pigtails and a blue vest, was only subtly aware of our conversation. She listened for trigger responses to key into her database. I'm sure her supervisor attempted to motivate her actions toward a more pleasing delivery, but underneath her vibrato she was desperately trying to be somewhere else.
Throughout my life, I've been visited by dark figures. Shadowed outlines of warped and torn pieces of agitated air. When I was young I thought that aliens vigilantly watched me at night, beckoning me to to merge with their bodies. To succumb to defeat. This would happen between the cluster of bedtime thoughts and the silent approach of sleep. The background would remain in focus, a left on tv or light in the hall, but a blurred and charred person would appear in the distance. It was as if time stood still and the melting figure was obsessed with picking at the tension that hovered around me. It was simple in nature, but utterly frightening. A personal otaku embedding itself into an unhealthy obsession. I would become paralyzed and had to deeply concentrate to move my hand a quarter of an inch. If someone was in the room, I would attempt to breathe in gasps to alert them, but this only intensified the mood. My body was a bean bag of pins and screaming children. A sudden realization would burrow its way in, this thing wanted to take over me and I wanted to let it. The real display of cowardice came when I fought back. Menacing against the fear of the unknown and then regretting the normal reality that remained. I would wake up in a jerking fit.
Much later, I found out these episodes were called night terrors. For a time, I was interested in their origin. I began to think this sleeping disorder had actual intentions that could be manipulated. Purposefully, I would sleep with the lights on or in awkward positions that would cause me to drift into that place between sleeping and waking. The entrance to this world would come with waves of yawning. It sounded like someone was quickly turning the volume knob on a static infused stereo, back and forth. As I listened to the car rental clerk talk, the world wobbled in and out of focus as the terrors reminded me of their presence. I hadn't had an episode like this in years, and never in these type of circumstances. Her head split between her cheeks and a white light flooded through the room. Suitcases were absorbed by the intensity while light fixtures shook hands with each other. When my eyes regained focus, I found myself sitting on a chair next to my mom.
Her house was at the edge of a cul-de-sac in Nixa Missouri. The town was dressed in such vulnerability that the construction of a Walmart steamrolled over local businesses, like the Guitar Man and the Bag Lady. It’s residence were so entrapped in the wonderment of a one-stop-stop, that they forgot how precious and intimate a remote culture could be. You could see the formation of forgotten men on the corner, made of rags and fossil fuel. The first baptist churches still sang with a fervor of salvation while the sepulture of past historians went unnoticed. As hard as you tried, the roadways turned into confines, always brining you back to the heart of america.
I sat in an old cushioned chair, resembling a modern aesthetic for the underpaid. The carpet shared the texture and color of fine sandpaper that bled into white speckled walls. This duplex was manufactured on stilts, so creaks and echoes could accompany you at night. My shoes were off as I reveled in the heat from floor vents, curling all of my toes up into themselves. Winter intonations fell upon the window in the kitchen, beating a rhythm that only the deaf could hear. My mom was lying on the couch to my left. Everything was always to my left. She kept the air at bay with a heavy quilt she had knitted some years before. I’m not sure what my mom was made of, but it was always gentile and soothing. She seemed to come from the sand and mold into a golden thread that kept the Earth and Polaris fixed on each other. Of all the ancient constants, this was the most fundamental.
She told me she was dying of cancer on a Tuesday. I had known that this aggressive insurgence was primed to suffocate her for some time, but my hope was smothered by insecurity. At this point, I didn’t have any sincerity for spirituality. What device could sacrifice something so beautiful? Even toward the end, my mom had difficulty accepting other peoples charity in exchange for hope. It’s this lack of understanding that filters my memories though anger and abundant solitude. In my mind, dirt and the rocks were held together with a piece of twine that placated my imagination, much like the blanket that kept her warm.
The chemo had taken her legs, her hair, and her ambition. Nothing is as twisted and embarrassing as radioactive decay. I couldn’t help but think of coal miners and deep caverns. My grandfather had labored over dense rock and low altitudes for decades, only to die from the same contagion that pulsed though my mom’s lymph nodes. I never knew him, but I was told stories about dumbfounded doctors who tried to alienate what they didn’t understand by poisoning him. Such a leftover fate for such a great man.
We watched tv most of the time. Educational programs designed to enlighten our concept of reality. Within their depths I found a miniature resistance to hotel room nights and procured a fondness for small town skies. Besides evening conversations and trips to the local antiques shop, there wan’t much else to do around here.
Curled up on the couch, I wanted to tell her so many things. How much I loved her and how I didn’t want her to leave. It’s hard to explain what it’s like when your spinning in a whirlpool of slow motion devastation. There is guilt for wanting it to end and there is sadness for all those who enter. Once, when I was young, she learned how to play a popular kids card game, just in case I was interested. I never developed an affinity to it, but I desperately wanted to harness that temperament and use it during times like this.
“I should be able to pay off the truck in time”
She was concerned that her husband, my step-father, wasn’t fiscally responsible enough to support himself. This was mostly true. They had argued often about money. The fact that she was worried about such things in her health was endearing and angering. Instead of embracing this responsibility and contributing to our family, my step-father chose to fumble through life as a coward. His exterior was burley and bear-like, but I knew what dwelt beneath.
“You shouldn’t have to worry about that. He should be able to manage.”
“I’m just worried about him and what will happen if this isn’t taken care of.”
I couldn’t help but hear the compassion in her voice. Personal debt is strange. It should be the last thing to consider when you are struggling on pain killers and sedatives. A mounting flurry of annoyance, towards him, had been building up for some time. It started with his spastic discipline attempts and followed with cheap moments of fatherhood bonding. In the months to come, her mind took to morphine and mine was split apart with vulnerability and temper. The fountain pouring out between my cheeks was fueled by moans and frustrating directives being yelled at her from another room. He didn’t handle anything with grace and I was too afraid to surface.
It brought me comfort that she was in my every movement, in every expression. The most cherished components of my being were forever laced in her tender influence. I knew this would follow me throughout my life, but the dichotomy of my head forced a path toward temporary numbness.
“I’m sorry mom. I love you”